Having it All without Losing it All Can you have it all?  Well, the answer to this question depends on the material you’re reading because ‘having it all’ is written as either the greatest achievement or the biggest myth. But you’re asking the wrong question, and you’re asking the wrong person. The question you should be asking and asking of yourself is, “What does ‘having it all’ mean to me?” How are you currently defining ‘having it all’?  Is it based upon the definition given by your community, your friends, your spouse, your coworkers, your parents or the media?  If so, then the answer is ‘no’, you can’t have it all. If I defined ‘having it all’ by someone else’s standards, then I would be an absolute failure. I’m not shattering the glass ceiling, holding an office on my children’s school PTA board, cooking gourmet meals every night and attending community even ...

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